At the end of March I had my bachelorette party + bridal shower. It was AWESOME!! I know from experience that planning these events takes a lot of time, effort and mulah so I am very grateful for everything my girls did to make that weekend everything I dreamed it would be!
BLOG DESIGN
image via Originalni Svatba // text via 27th + Luxe
//Create a vision board. Before hiring a designer, you should really think about how you want your blog to look and feel. What colors do you like, what elements would translate beautifully onto paper products or even within blog elements you plan to add at a later date.
//Hire a designer. Unless you are the king or queen of design + development, hire a designer. There are a great deal of designers out there who don't charge an arm + a leg. You can even purchase blog templates starting at about $25 on Etsy. Hire a designer or purchase a template. Just do it.
//White space is your friend. White space definitely makes the blog more visually appealing. Everything will look organized and streamlined. Your reader's eyes will move naturally along the web page versus darting to and fro trying to figure out what's going on.
//Left align or justify your text. Seriously. This makes for a cleaner look overall within your blog posts and makes it easier to read. And while we're at it, stick with a few fonts, a few being 2 or 3 to be used throughout your blog - header, sidebar and blog posts. Anything more and you're doing the most.
//Keep your sidebar as neat as possible. I've seen several posts on this very topic and I have to agree-blog award buttons and link-ups do not need to set up shop in your sidebar, just my opinion! I did have mine there at one point and then I removed them. I think if your sidebar is overflowing, then it's time to create an "As Seen In" page and a "Link Ups" page.
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WEEKLY WISHES 07
image via My Craft Garden // text via 27th + LUXE
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Can you believe that image is made out of clay?!? Crazy right!! Looks so real! This past week was pretty relaxed, I drove out to Louisiana to visit my baby sister and had a blast!
LAST WEEK'S WISHES
// Get ahead in new course. I started my new course today. I looked at the syllabus and realized that I have some major assignments due the week of the wedding and honeymoon. So my goal is to get a head start on everything this term so I'm not pulling my hair out later.
// Continue looking for honeymoon attire. I've picked out my color scheme by default due to bachelorette festivities so that will make it easier to shop now! Still waiting until mid April to make any other purchases.
//Continue to eat clean and make it to the gym after work. Last week wasn't so hot. I ended up skipping the gym to deal with school work and that ab challenge...I started it and then I stopped LOL! IT'S SO HARD!!! But, I don't have too much to do this week so I'll be back to working out and I'll attempt to start that ab challenge again.
//Send wedding program information to the designer. So behind on this. But since things aren't as hectic for me anymore, I need to get this done this week.
Ahead...not so much, but definitely on track. This week's course load isn't heavy, so I can still work to get ahead. The weekend came and I just wanted to rest and rest some more! So I've pretty much decided what I'll be wearing on our honeymoon and I'll start shopping in a week or two, yay! Blah to the gym!! LOL! But I will be going back tonight, again I needed the rest! Sigh...I got wrapped up in making a soca and reggae list to make sure the DJ mixes it in with the other music that I didn't get this done.
THIS WEEK'S WISHES
//Send wedding program information to the designer. Still so behind on this. I have to get this done ASAP.
//Order last of the items for the wedding day. Jimminy cricket! The wedding is right around the corner. If I want it here on time, this week is the latest I can order it.
//Remind Aaron to get his stuff together to go get that marriage license. So I brought this up last week and of course he doesn't know where his papers are...*side eye*.
//Send music list to the planner so she can forward to the DJ. I'm almost done, I just need to organize it so it makes sense.
//Be up in the gym working on my fitness and eat clean..er. I'm thinking it's time to detox. I've had some fun these past few weekends, so it's time to get back on track.
//Spring clean. I need to clean out my closet. I was just looking at it the other day and there's tons of stuff that I don't use, so it's time to do a big clean and give a lot of things away.
//Get ahead in new course. This will probably be on my list for a while. I don't want to be scrambling at the end like I was last term, especially since this is my last course.
//Get ready for 2nd dress fitting. The first one was great! The dress fit looser and I picked out my veil! This time I want to bring my jewelry with me so I can get an idea of the completed look.
//Get wedding shoes cleaned. Yes. The new white shoes arrived with subtle stains.
//Apply for jobs. It's really time to ramp up my search. I'm even looking for internships. If you have any suggestions, email me!
//Do something creative. I may try another sewing project or do some painting.
Best of luck accomplishing all of your goals this week! And, if you're anything like me, you should consider linking up with Melyssa for Weekly Wishes. They don't have to be weekly-they can fit your schedule however you see fit!
LOVE THYSELF
Before I get started with today's post, I'd like to direct your attention over to my sidebar. Are you looking? Great! You may or may not have noticed that I've created a reader survey and I'd love for you to take it. It's not very long I promise!
I am supposed to be journaling with The Everygirl for 30 days. They started on Tuesday, so I am a few days behind. I thought I'd still participate even though I'm a little off schedule. The Everygirl advised that our journaling experience over the next 30 days contain substance, so I decided to focus on a theme. The theme I'm going to focus on is "love thyself".
I'm one month away from becoming Mrs. Griffin and now seems like a really good time, probably the best time, to reflect. Over the last 2 years, I've been challenged in ways that I could not have imagined. It's made me re-evaluate who I am as a person, identify and define what I want out of life, and make plans to get there. The real world is nothing like I thought it would be, and I guess no one can really prepare you for what comes after college. But now, I know where I want to be and so I'm willing to do what's necessary to get there - in my career and in my goals for where I want to be when we start a family.
So the point of this journal is to encourage and uplift myself- to remind myself that yes, I'm getting married and my name is changing, but I still have dreams and goals. I want to make sure they don't fade away once I settle in to married life and have kids (years from now!). I think it's unfortunate that for some people, after the years have gone by, look back on their lives and they're unhappy. I don't want to be that person. I want to live and know that I lived.
I encourage you to try this! What are you passionate about? What goals do you have? Journal daily for 30 days, pour your heart out onto those pages. It will be a time to reflect and will be your documentation of your hearts deepest desires. When times get challenging because they will and you may even feel like giving up, the journal will be your reminder of where you want to be and where you are going.
PROCRASTINATION - 5 TOOLS TO KEEP YOU ON TRACK
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I've shared with you about my recent struggles with procrastination, especially during this last term of grad school. Did I tell you it all worked out-I finished with two A's!!! Anyway, I've been observing myself and I've realized that I'm procrastinating because I have other things I'd much rather be doing (work on my blog, work on my goals to have my own business, sleep, etc.). I thought it would be a good idea to share some tools to stay focused and organized, especially when your mind is going 100 miles per minute, focusing on everything else but the task at hand.
// Mind Mapping: A mind map is a diagram used to visually outline information. A mind map is often created around a single word or text, placed in the center, to which associated ideas, words and concepts are added. Major categories radiate from the center, and less important categories are sub-branches of larger branches. Categories can represent words, ideas, tasks or other items related to a central key word or idea.
**update: There is mind mapping software available if you want to create one digitally. You could also use other programs like PowerPoint, Photoshop, or good ole pen and paper.**
// Evernote: Evernote makes it easy to remember things big and small from your everyday life using your computer, phone, tablet and the web. Evernote also has other products like Evernote Remember, Skitch, Evernote Peek and Penultimate.
// Wunderlist: Wunderlist is the easiest way to manage and share your to-do lists. Whether you’re planning an overseas adventure, sharing a shopping list with a loved one or running your very own business, Wunderlist allows you to collaborate anywhere with anyone. Wunderlist syncs across iPhone, iPad, Mac, Android, Windows and the Web to keep you on top of to-dos from just about any device.
// Planner: I am currently using a Lilly Pulitzer planner to keep track of my life. I got it because it was pretty, but I am planning on switching over to the Whitney English Day Designer or the Emily Ley Simplified Life Planner next year.
// Notebook: This is where it all goes down! This is where I write my ideas, goals, plans, blog posts, sketches. It's really a messy notebook that would only make sense to me. I'm using the greenroom notebooks that you can find at Target. I like moleskins, but I don't like their price. A notebook is a notebook at the end of the day.
I have used everything on this list, but right now I'm mostly using Wunderlist, a planner and a notebook. I use Wunderlist because it keeps my to do list organized by what's going on in my life like, school, the blog and the wedding. My notebook is where I jot down ideas and a to do list as well, but it can get pretty sloppy. The planner was being used to keep track of my to do's, but Wunderlist and the notebook have taken over. I like the day designer and plan on purchasing one in the future because it will give me some worksheets that are centered around my business and brand. I've been making my own thus far and that's been working, but sometimes I like to simply "do" without thinking about the how.
What tools do you use to stay on track and avoid procrastination street?
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| Tanay blogs over at This Girl & the World a lifestyle blog focused on...well life! Some of my favorite posts are about her hair journey, scheduling posts in advance "because sh*t happens"(that's certainly the truth for me this week!), and I just love a good inspiration board filled with clothes! |









