THE WEEKEND



It's been a long week. A really long one. I just woke up to head to the nail shop and all I want to do is crawl back into bed because I probably won't sleep again until Monday. I know Sunday is the big day, but it still hasn't hit me that I'll be walking down the aisle and getting married. That's a major change!! And maybe I won't ever get nervous because I've been with this dude for 8 years. That's a long time and I'm ready for what's to come. So cheers! Especially to THIS weekend!

// so feeling this right now. It sure is never too late!!

// check out this pretty wedding featured on SMP yesterday.

// have some time to be creative this weekend? Try these DIYs, I'll be trying a few when I get back from the honeymoon!

// i had no idea this happened in my own backyard. I discovered it when i had fomo about Coachella. Hopefully I can make it there - word on the street is that Outkast will be there!

// loving these pictures. My dream home would be near a beach...Galveston does not count. 

// another DIY to try! I have been looking for a tray too and this one is perfect!

// apparently Pineapple decor is a thing...not sure how I feel about it. BUT I do know these prints are super cute!

// and i'll leave you with one last wedding - from Texas!


Have an awesome and hopefully relaxing weekend. I start running around like a chicken with my head cut off today...pray for me!

MY WEDDING INSPIRATION



image source // Photo Credit: Greer G Photography

Hi lovelies!! I can't believe I'm getting married on Sunday! I thought it would be fun to give you a glimpse into what inspired my vision for the big day! When I started on my spreadsheet (pre-Pinterest days), my vision was for a winter wedding that was either rustic or chic. Then I scrapped my spreadsheet for whatever reason. That's when I heard about Pinterest. I signed up and waited for my access and began pinning away wedding ideas once I was engaged. Let's take a look shall we!






















PACKING...





We're packing right now for our honeymoon. Truth be told I'm looking at the suitcase right now. My things are already in it and a few feet away is my carry on with the majority of my things in it. And of course Aaron is the last minute packer. I'm still missing my headphones, my laptop (yes...it's coming with me because I still have to participate in discussions for school *sigh*). I thought it would be fun to do a little post of things to pack for a tropical honeymoon. I have some of these items or similar items. I think I did really good with the packing this time - I don't have my entire wardrobe! It also helps that where we are staying, our suite has a washer + dryer. That was enough to convince me to pack light!

travel for her



WEEKLY WISHES 10



weekly-wishes

image via Lamp Shade Bash // text via 27th + Luxe



Hello everyone! I am a day late, but I'm back! I've had a lot of things happen with my family over the last few days, yesterday included and I'm just now pulling myself back together. I can't believe I'm getting married in 5 days! 




LAST WEEK'S WISHES


//Complete seating chart and send to planner by Thursday. We met with the planner yesterday and went through the timeline and how everything will look. I got goosebumps!

//Be up in the gym working on my fitness and eat clean..er. I'll be working out this week, just not as hard as I would like. 

//Spring clean. Ongoing-needs to be done by April 30th before I am consumed by the wedding weekend. 

//Get ahead in new course. I'll become a hermit crab this week. I looked at the course schedule and I can really get a lot accomplished this week if I don't procrastinate!

//Continue to apply for jobs.

We did complete the seating chart and it wasn't as difficult as I thought it would be. I did not make it to the gym, but I did manage to lose some more weight and had to get my dress altered again. I did start cleaning, yay! I am exactly where I wanted to be with my coursework and I've been looking for a new job. 


THIS WEEK'S WISHES


//Take care of last minute wedding to do list. Oh are there last minute to-do's! It's not as bad as it seems though. I've dropped everything off at the planners house that I needed to take to  her. Now it's the little things for the day like get nails done, get bridesmaids gifts packaged, etc. 

//Put last minute items into suitcase for honeymoon. I packed this past Saturday because I went to the mall to purchase my clothes for the honeymoon. I like to go through my things when I get home to see if I still feel the same way I felt at the store when I decided to purchase it. While I was doing that, I decided to pack. This week I'll just need to add lotion, body wash, etc. 

//Enjoy these last few days of being engaged. This has been a challenge because I'm sad about my cousin's death. I was so excited to see him and now I can't. I know he's at peace and I'll be seeing him later and he was so happy and excited for me. So, these next few days I need to be excited too and not sad. 

//Get married. Wow...all the planning and preparation has come to an end. I'm getting married on Sunday. 



Best of luck accomplishing all of your goals this week! And, if you're anything like me, you should consider linking up with Melyssa for Weekly Wishes. They don't have to be weekly-they can fit your schedule however you see fit!

LINK LOVE



image via SF Girl By Bay // flower by Tiffanie Turner

I hope you are having a great weekend! I'm a day behind, but I wanted to share some links with you from this past week. 

// How are you feeling about the new Twitter profile? I think I like it!

// Have you heard about My Nourish Box? If you haven't visit the shop, this would make an awesome mother's day gift!

// I found this site a while ago but couldn't remember what it was or find the link. Great stuff for dog lovers!

// Do you ever get over-inspired? Amber at And Yes To Joy wrote a great post on how to combat too much inspiration as a blogger.

// I always struggle with networking - particularly because I feel like small talk at functions isn't necessarily genuine. This post talks about meaningful networking.

// Have you heard of Used Magazine? It's a bi-annual publication that focuses on the relationship between fashion and art. 

This week has been pretty interesting. We had our final meeting with the wedding planner, turned in the seating chart, did a walk through at the venue. And while I'm super excited that the wedding is next weekend, I've had a recent death in the family so my spirit is a little broken. It was sudden and I was anticipating seeing this person at the wedding so I'm devastated. It's just a major reminder that today is a gift and tomorrow is not promised. These situations really put things into perspective and makes me evaluate what's truly important to me - what things are worth dealing with and what things need to be removed from my life. Do you ever do that - reflect after something tragic, or do you just suck it up and keep it moving? 

I'm learning just how important it is to live life to the fullest, to cherish your loved ones, always treat people with kindness and respect. I'm amazed and so thankful for the outpouring of love and support by all the people who knew my cousin and love him dearly. They've been such a blessing to my aunt and his siblings. 

They've put together a memorial fund in his honor, the Kevin Swanston Memorial Fund, to help his family raise money for his funeral services. It would mean so much to us to receive your donation if you feel inclined to do so. 

Have a great weekend and remember to love + cherish those you hold near and dear to your heart.